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Dear
Egyptian Castle,
This
girl that lives
in Egypt is
trying to get my
husband. his
name is xxxxxxx
.. he visits
often and they
know each other
well xxxxxxx and
I have been
together for 5
years now in the
USA and all is
fine in our
relationship
there are no
real problems .
he visits his
family and they
only know of me.
xxxxxxx has been
getting love
letters and
pictures of her
for the past
year now this is
not a secret any
more because I
work with him
and the mail
comes to our
store well I
happened to find
these letters
and wrote her a
letter telling
her about me and
xxxxxxx and I
also asked her
to stop and
leave him alone
well the letters
stopped for a
while and then
he went back
home to visit
just this past
month and sure
enough I found
pictures and
letters this
time they were
on a date and
she didn't have
on any jewelry
they had a
picture like
that then they
were in a
nightclub and
they had a
picture together
and she was
wearing a
necklace,
bracelet and
ring that he put
on her this is
the picture she
sent then to him
and also sent a
letter asking
written in English
if he loves her
and kisses. well
I noticed when
he got back he
did kiss
different I just
don't know what
to do at this
point on one
hand I feel to
kick him out on
the other hand
I'm sorry and
feel bad but I didn't
do anything
except take care
of our life here
while he went to
visit his
family. honestly
you know I have
these pictures
and look at them
and its sad.
then I think
but... what I don't
know we live in California
and the law here
makes this beneficial
for me this is
the only way its
gona hurt him I
think I don't
know but with
the years we
learn and this
too will be a
lesson well
learned in both
our lives any
ways her name is
ooooooooooo I
wrote this I don't
know why maybe
hopping your the
kind of person
who will help
how again I don't
know ....
xxxxxxx the man
I'm with that's
cheating on me..
oh ya I remember
a nice old man
one day at the
mosque told me
leave him he's
using you...
well he has done
a lot for me mentally
he has taught me
a lot of good
things . but I
cant trust him
now not at all
oh the past 4
days I have been
sick I have some
kind of
infection in my throat
was told to see
a doctor I guess
I'll have to
because I could
only feel it
swelling up
bigger and
bigger oh I don't
want to be sick
I need to be
strong.. tell me
what should I
do. waiting to
hear from you
thanks |
Dear
Susan,
I
understand the
pain you must be
going through ..
nothing hurt
more than when
it comes from
the person
you've most
trusted and now
feel
betrayed.
Your mention of
the jewelry in
the picture
reveals to me
that perhaps you
feel that the
relationship is
more than just a
date. Actually
as per our
Egyptian
tradition, this
type and amount
of jewelry
usually called
"Shabka"
which is jewelry
given to the
girl upon
agreement of
marriage.
Also if that
girl wrote to
him in English
is an indication
of how strong
she feels about
her position and
that she wanted
you to know it
.. that's why I
suspect that he
actually got
married to that
girl in
Egypt. If
your husband is
a Moslem, he is
allowed
according to the
Moslem religion
to marry up to 4
(four) women,
however we have
to emphasize
that this is no
longer a common
practice.
We are aware
that polygamy is
illegal in the
USA, but only if
you can prove
it, which we
have to assume
that it will be
very difficult
if it happened
in Egypt. On the
other hand in
this particular
case, it appears
that he is
trying to get
the best out of
two worlds ..
have a wife back
home who can
carry his
tradition and
culture and come
back to the USA
for the
comfortable
life. We
have to agree
totally with the
nice old man
whom you met at
the mosque .. it
is also my
opinion that he
is using you and
no matter how
much you care
about your
husband, you definitely
are better off
without
him.
Obviously he did
not have the decency
to face you ..
why rock the
boat if he can
get away with
it. Take action
and claim your
life back,
which he does
not deserve to
be part
of. You deserve
better than
that. Now you
must only think
about yourself
and be
strong. It
will not be easy
to let go after
all these years,
but better now
than 10 years
from now.
Don't shed a
tear over him,
he is simply not
worth it.
Stay healthy for
your own
good. We
wish you all the
best. |
Our
honest opinion
The Egyptian
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